Student Ministry

Where is God in the middle of tragedy?

This is a question that many are asking in our community. In the past couple of weeks we have seen a student in our community die in a car wreck and a father commit suicide. Many are grieving and many are asking questions.

Last night, at 24/7 Worship, we talked about how to answer this question and how to approach tragedy in our lives. At some point in time, we will all have to deal with tragedy in our lives. My hope is that what is provided below might help you think through tragedy biblically and equip you to answer some of the questions that you may hear.

1. God is in control. There is never a moment in time where God sits back, scratches his head and says, “I didn’t see that coming.” He is the sovereign creator and sustainer of this world and tragedy does not catch him by surprise.

– Psalm 103:19

– Jeremiah 32:17

– Romans 11:33

– Colossians 1:16

– Revelation 21:6

2. God is good. We must never forget that God is good and his grace falls on the just and the unjust. Every person on this planet has benefited from God’s goodness. Even in the middle of tragedy, God is good.

– Exodus 33:19

– Psalm 33:5, 135:3, 145:9

– Matthew 5:45

– Luke 6:35

– Romans 8:28

3. We live in a world shattered by sin. Our world is broken and will remain broken until Jesus returns. Bad things happen because we are sinners and we live in a sin-tainted world. This should deepen our longing for the other world (heaven) we were created for!

– Genesis 3

– Romans 1:18-31, 8:22

4. Life is short. The mortality rate is 100%. We will die. This should not discourage us but challenge us to “number our days” so that we will be of maximum impact for God’s kingdom while we still have breath.

– Psalm 39:4-6, 89:4-7, 90:12

– James 4:14

5. The mission is urgent. People who die without Christ will spend eternity in hell. We cannot waste time and opportunities to make disciples. This is the one mission Christ gave to his disciples and we must see this mission as URGENT! If the people around us don’t hear the glorious message of the gospel from us…who will tell them?

– Matthew 28:19-20

– Isaiah 1:18

– Romans 10:13-17

– 2 Peter 3:9

**Pray for the families that are grieving and pray that much would be made of Jesus through these tragedies!

Book Review – Speaking to Teenagers

If you have ever attempted to speak to a group of teenagers you know it is hard work! Add on top of that trying to speak about an issue as important as the gospel and it can get down right overwhelming. Youth pastors and workers are indebted to Doug Field and Duffy Robbins for what they have provided in this book. It goes beyond a “how to” manual and challenged me to think about the way I connect to and relate with my students as I speak to them.

The book is divided into three sections: (1) How to Think about Effective Messages, (2) How to Create Messages That S.T.I.C.K., and (3) How to Deliver Effective Messages.

Section 1: How to Think about Effective Messages

In this section, Fields and Robbins explored the role of the speaker, the role of the audience, and what is needed to put together an effective message. This was the most intense part of the book for me because they spent a great deal of time discussing the theoretical aspects of communication. I was introduced to a great deal of this material (ethos, pathos, logos, and reading audience cues, etc.) while in seminary but it was still a great refresher course. If you have never had any training with communication theory, I would encourage you to read this section with care. It is very easy to move past this section quickly and get to the more “practical” parts but you will be miss a great opportunity to grow in your understanding of how communication works.

Section 2: How to Create Messages That S.T.I.C.K.

This section was the most practical section for me and challenged me the most. Fields and Robbins introduced the S.T.I.C.K. method for creating messages: Study, Think, Illustrate, Construct, and Keep Focused. I do a pretty good job thinking, constructing, and staying focused on the message but need a great deal of improvement in studying and illustrating. I enjoy spending time studying but need to make it more of a priority in my weekly schedule. The chapter on illustrating the message was by far the most challenging and informative chapter in the book. The S.T.I.C.K. method is a good step-by-step approach to adopt if you have not yet settled in on a particular method to craft messages.

Section 3: How to Deliver Effective Messages

In this section, Fields and Robbins examined how room set-up, gestures, and vocal inflection impact delivery effectiveness. This discussion was practical and helpful even though a good deal of the information was obvious. Speakers need to do everything possible to set the room up in a way that allows for the most interaction with the audience. They also need to be certain that gestures and vocal inflection enhance the message rather than detract from the message. This section was a good reminder for me and it caused me to consider specific ways to enhance my delivery.

Books like this can be helpful but they can also cause people to feel that they will never measure up. I recognized that I have a ton of work to do to become a better speaker overall and to teenagers specifically. Fields and Robbins end the book with this encouragement: “God doesn’t need flawless communicators…just faithful ones.” I know I will never be flawless but my prayer is that I will always be faithful. One part of remaining faithful is continuing to grow and learn how to communicate more effectively. Every youth pastor and youth worker needs to read this book!

Favorite Quotes

“There are hurting kids everywhere dying to know the good news of God’s love. That’s why there’s no question that those of us who teach the Word of God are involved in a serious enterprise. ‘The stakes have never been higher,’ and ‘the silence is deafening.’”

“Giving a talk is one thing; being given a listen is something else altogether.”

“Who you are is more important than what you say.”

“It’s not about what we say; it’s about what teenagers hear. It’s not about what comes out of our mouths; it’s about what goes into their brains.”

“Speaking is a spiritual encounter between God’s Spirit, God’s Word, the audience whom God loves so much, and…you, the speaker.”